Recent Episodes

“Only you can control your future.” Dr. Seuss – Self-efficacy

“Only you can control your future.” Dr. Seuss – Self-efficacy

02/08/2021

Do you control your future? If there is one message we send consistently to our kids, it's this: your choices matter. We want them to see the world as a place where they are in control of what happens. If they make the right choices, happiness awaits them. If they choose the w ..
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“In the end, we will not remember the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.” Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. – Loyalty

“In the end, we will not remember the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.” Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. – Loyalty

02/02/2021

Do you need loyalty to fight injustice? Sometimes doing the right thing means that you will face scorn and ridicule from other people. This opposition may take the form of angry words thrown against us. As much as these words hurt us, there is a different kind of pain we feel ..
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“Men are born to succeed, not fail.”  Henry David Thoreau – Perseverance

“Men are born to succeed, not fail.” Henry David Thoreau – Perseverance

01/27/2021

Do we have control over our own success? Setting aside the 19th century gender-biased language and applying the wisdom to all students, Thoreau is saying something important about success and positive thinking. If students believe they can succeed, then they are halfway home. ..
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“Happiness depends on us.”  Aristotle – Happiness

“Happiness depends on us.” Aristotle – Happiness

01/19/2021

Do we have the power to make ourselves happy? Students think and talk about happiness all of the time. Some believe happiness is something we control and that if we just do the right things we will become happy. There are others who think of happiness as a byproduct of a good ..
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“The function of freedom is to free someone else.”  Toni Morrison – Responsibility

“The function of freedom is to free someone else.” Toni Morrison – Responsibility

01/12/2021

How do you know when to put other people's needs above your own? Students of every age struggle with moral decisions about how to balance their own individual needs with the needs of others. Either way they decide, there is sacrifice. Focus on the individual and they must sacr ..
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“Strength lies in differences, not in similarities.” Stephen Covey – Diversity

“Strength lies in differences, not in similarities.” Stephen Covey – Diversity

12/17/2020

Does diversity makes us stronger? Diversity is something many students confront for the first time in school. They are required to learn with students of different socio-economic and cultural backgrounds, not to mention those who embrace different traditions, learning styles, ..
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“The only thing that I know is that I know nothing.” Socrates – Humility

“The only thing that I know is that I know nothing.” Socrates – Humility

12/08/2020

Should we question what we are sure of? All students have run across "know-it-alls". They might be one themselves. They walk into a room and express supreme confidence with their knowledge. Being humble is seen as a sign of weakness. Humble students wait patiently, ask questio ..
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“A friend to all is a friend to none.”  Aristotle – Friendship

“A friend to all is a friend to none.” Aristotle – Friendship

11/29/2020

What does it mean to be a friend?  Students have strong opinions about friends. They are in the process of making friendships and ending them. Students have different perspectives on how many friends they should have. Some believe that friends should come in large numbers, while ..
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“The best way to predict the future is to create it”  Abraham Lincoln – Self-Determination

“The best way to predict the future is to create it” Abraham Lincoln – Self-Determination

11/24/2020

Do we have control of our future?  Students are fed the consistent message that they can achieve anything in life if they work hard at it. They are in control of their future. Students are also aware that much of their future is out of their control. No matter how hard they t ..
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“Those who are happiest are those who do the most for others.” Booker T. Washington – Happiness

“Those who are happiest are those who do the most for others.” Booker T. Washington – Happiness

11/17/2020

How do you know when giving to others will make you happy? Happiness is something all students want. The challenge is how to get it. Students often get mixed messages here. On the one hand, they are told to focus on themselves and figure out a path towards happiness that benef ..
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“Be mindful of the present, and the future will take care of itself.”  Lord Chesterfield – Goal-Setting

“Be mindful of the present, and the future will take care of itself.” Lord Chesterfield – Goal-Setting

11/12/2020

What's the best way to plan your life? Setting life goals is an activity we encourage young people to do. If you set goals for your future, then you will become happier and successful because you know what you want. That being said, it's very unclear just how we should plan ou ..
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“To the world, you may be one person, but to one person, you may be the world.” Dr. Seuss – Responsibility

“To the world, you may be one person, but to one person, you may be the world.” Dr. Seuss – Responsibility

11/09/2020

Do you have the responsibility to be a role model for others? Many students assume they are just a number and don’t really matter in the world. They don’t think of themselves as role models with responsibilities to other people. Yet, like it or not, their behavior is being ..
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